What podcasts say about Elliott Appel
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What Elliott Appel has said on podcasts
22 statements · 18 positive · 2 negative · 2 neutral
The Aging Life Care Association lists elder care consultants.
“there is an organization called the Aging Life Care Association that has elder care consultants listed”
Open the episode · Elliott Appel: Caring for My Father Put My Life on Pause for 7 Years. Here’s What I LearnedListen at 9:19
Springing durable powers of attorney add burdens during crises.
“I don't love this bringing durable power of attorneys out there because it's just one more burden to put on someone during an already hard time”
Open the episode · Elliott Appel: Caring for My Father Put My Life on Pause for 7 Years. Here’s What I LearnedListen at 14:07
Financial-institution DPOA forms are more likely to be accepted.
“we used the... own financial institution's DPOA forms as opposed to my dad's forms. And this meant that we knew it would get accepted.”
Open the episode · Elliott Appel: Caring for My Father Put My Life on Pause for 7 Years. Here’s What I LearnedListen at 14:40
People should proactively add trusted agents to powers of attorney.
“maybe let's just proactively add someone that you trust to this or maybe your actual DPO and your legal documents. So it's set up to help when you need it”
Open the episode · Elliott Appel: Caring for My Father Put My Life on Pause for 7 Years. Here’s What I LearnedListen at 15:47
Families should begin money and aging conversations early.
“start having these money conversations and aging conversations early”
Open the episode · Elliott Appel: Caring for My Father Put My Life on Pause for 7 Years. Here’s What I LearnedListen at 18:01
Families should freeze aging parents' credit to reduce fraud risk.
“Other low hanging fruit here is to freeze their credit.”
Open the episode · Elliott Appel: Caring for My Father Put My Life on Pause for 7 Years. Here’s What I LearnedListen at 18:53
Child-protection phone software can work well for cognitively impaired parents.
“the protection that you put on maybe a kid's cell phone is the same stuff that works really, really well for adult parents”
Open the episode · Elliott Appel: Caring for My Father Put My Life on Pause for 7 Years. Here’s What I LearnedListen at 21:56
View-only authorizations provide account visibility without transaction control.
“The next step down, a lot of financial institutions have a view-only authorization where you can view what's going on, but it's not actually going to give you the ability to do anything in the account.”
Open the episode · Elliott Appel: Caring for My Father Put My Life on Pause for 7 Years. Here’s What I LearnedListen at 22:50
Joint account ownership exposes parents to additional financial risks.
“I would not do that because you're introducing new risk. for your parent.”
Open the episode · Elliott Appel: Caring for My Father Put My Life on Pause for 7 Years. Here’s What I LearnedListen at 23:31
Trusted adults should be added to utility and phone accounts.
“I'd recommend getting added in some capacity.”
Open the episode · Elliott Appel: Caring for My Father Put My Life on Pause for 7 Years. Here’s What I LearnedListen at 25:52
People should place as many recurring payments as possible on autopay.
“I hope most people... have as many things on autopay as possible.”
Open the episode · Elliott Appel: Caring for My Father Put My Life on Pause for 7 Years. Here’s What I LearnedListen at 26:15
Families should inspect care facilities and verify medical capabilities.
“it's really important to actually go view the facilities and make sure that they have really looked at your person's medical file and have the capabilities to do this”
Open the episode · Elliott Appel: Caring for My Father Put My Life on Pause for 7 Years. Here’s What I LearnedListen at 30:52
Caregivers should avoid burnout by respecting a parent's choices.
“you also can't burn yourself out trying to get them to do something that they don't want to do. You can't care about it more than your loved one.”
Open the episode · Elliott Appel: Caring for My Father Put My Life on Pause for 7 Years. Here’s What I LearnedListen at 33:51
Caregivers should set their own boundaries with loved ones.
“you have to set the boundaries that you are comfortable with. Your parents don't. or your loved ones don't get to set those boundaries for you.”
Open the episode · Elliott Appel: Caring for My Father Put My Life on Pause for 7 Years. Here’s What I LearnedListen at 35:24
Caregivers should seek support groups specific to their illness or community.
“if you can find one in your specific community and the specific thing that you are going through”
Open the episode · Elliott Appel: Caring for My Father Put My Life on Pause for 7 Years. Here’s What I LearnedListen at 38:24
Relief after a loved one's death can be a normal caregiving response.
“if you feel relief that's that's perfectly okay i think that's a very normal thing”
Open the episode · Elliott Appel: Caring for My Father Put My Life on Pause for 7 Years. Here’s What I LearnedListen at 40:27
Financial planners should proactively establish trusted contacts and DPOAs.
“For clients, it's being more intentional about getting trusted contacts or DPUAs set up”
Open the episode · Elliott Appel: Caring for My Father Put My Life on Pause for 7 Years. Here’s What I LearnedListen at 41:49
The U.S. should completely restructure health insurance and healthcare spending.
“I would like a complete restructuring of health insurance, health care spending, and the systems available to us.”
Open the episode · Elliott Appel: Caring for My Father Put My Life on Pause for 7 Years. Here’s What I LearnedListen at 43:40
Healthcare systems should place greater emphasis on prevention.
“So I'd love to see more health prevention.”
Open the episode · Elliott Appel: Caring for My Father Put My Life on Pause for 7 Years. Here’s What I LearnedListen at 44:18
Communities should include more intentionally mixed-age housing.
“What if we had some more mixed communities where you have younger folks, you have people with kids, you have older people?”
Open the episode · Elliott Appel: Caring for My Father Put My Life on Pause for 7 Years. Here’s What I LearnedListen at 44:39
The U.S. should implement nationwide estate-planning changes.
“I want to see some nationwide changes around estate planning.”
Open the episode · Elliott Appel: Caring for My Father Put My Life on Pause for 7 Years. Here’s What I LearnedListen at 45:10
People should have a mandatory estate-planning conversation at age 65.
“What if we had something for estate planning where you have to have some sort of forced conversation at 65”
Open the episode · Elliott Appel: Caring for My Father Put My Life on Pause for 7 Years. Here’s What I LearnedListen at 45:27
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