What podcasts say about Connor Bedard
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What Connor Bedard has said on podcasts
12 statements · 6 positive · 3 negative · 1 mixed · 2 neutral
Shame-based motivation can produce success without lasting fulfillment.
“it really works and it can really work well, but it doesn't often lead to the type of satisfaction fulfillment that people are ultimately seeking”
Open the episode · 4 Men Share How They Hit Rock Bottom (and got out) - Dr K, Joe Hudson & Connor Beaton - #1159Listen at 6:03
Behavioral change requires an individual’s deliberate choice.
“you'll stop when you choose to. You'll shift when you choose to”
Open the episode · 4 Men Share How They Hit Rock Bottom (and got out) - Dr K, Joe Hudson & Connor Beaton - #1159Listen at 15:53
Connor lived in his car for several weeks after his relationships and identity collapsed.
“The low point is I moved all my shit into storage and lived in the car. In a Walmart parking lot for a few weeks.”
Open the episode · 4 Men Share How They Hit Rock Bottom (and got out) - Dr K, Joe Hudson & Connor Beaton - #1159Listen at 59:13
Connor experienced major recovery and reconciliation over roughly ten years.
“it really was this sort of full circle moment where 10 years later I was like, holy shit, I've made it through this”
Open the episode · 4 Men Share How They Hit Rock Bottom (and got out) - Dr K, Joe Hudson & Connor Beaton - #1159Listen at 1:02:17
Human development continues through successive stages.
“we continue to go through these different stages”
Open the episode · 4 Men Share How They Hit Rock Bottom (and got out) - Dr K, Joe Hudson & Connor Beaton - #1159Listen at 1:29:06
Self-worth develops through relational and attachment experiences.
“everybody needs to develop a sense of self-worth, which is relational-based, it's attachment-based”
Open the episode · 4 Men Share How They Hit Rock Bottom (and got out) - Dr K, Joe Hudson & Connor Beaton - #1159Listen at 1:33:16
Self-esteem requires confidence, competence, and capability.
“people to develop self-esteem. They need to have some level of confidence, competence, capability.”
Open the episode · 4 Men Share How They Hit Rock Bottom (and got out) - Dr K, Joe Hudson & Connor Beaton - #1159Listen at 1:33:22
Change requires confronting avoided emotions or experiences.
“there's no change without some form of confrontation”
Open the episode · 4 Men Share How They Hit Rock Bottom (and got out) - Dr K, Joe Hudson & Connor Beaton - #1159Listen at 1:57:23
Shame can motivate some achievements.
“You might be able to shame your way into some achievements”
Open the episode · 4 Men Share How They Hit Rock Bottom (and got out) - Dr K, Joe Hudson & Connor Beaton - #1159Listen at 2:02:17
Shame may produce achievements but not lasting fulfillment.
“shame is not an internal state that you're going to be able to leverage for success, for fulfillment, at least”
Open the episode · 4 Men Share How They Hit Rock Bottom (and got out) - Dr K, Joe Hudson & Connor Beaton - #1159Listen at 2:02:29
Shame can achieve results without enabling enjoyment of them.
“I think it's effective in achieving results, but it's not effective in being able to reap the rewards of the achievements.”
Open the episode · 4 Men Share How They Hit Rock Bottom (and got out) - Dr K, Joe Hudson & Connor Beaton - #1159Listen at 2:06:17
A person’s inherent worth is independent of behavior and achievement.
“Who you are, your personhood, your sense of self is inherently good no matter not no matter, but no matter what you do, no matter what you accomplish, no matter what you achieve.”
Open the episode · 4 Men Share How They Hit Rock Bottom (and got out) - Dr K, Joe Hudson & Connor Beaton - #1159Listen at 2:11:06
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