What podcasts say about David Deida
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What David Deida has said on podcasts
19 statements · 8 positive · 1 negative · 3 mixed · 7 neutral
Man of Zero involves presence and awareness without an urge to change things
“It's pure presence, it's pure awareness”
Open the episode · The New Way Of The Superior Man - David Deida - #1101Listen at 2:55
Allowing former motivations to become still is healthy and appropriate
“It's healthy and appropriate for, for the motivations of your body and mind that had moved you in the past to come to stillness”
Open the episode · The New Way Of The Superior Man - David Deida - #1101Listen at 11:35
External success does not fundamentally change a person’s being
“but essentially they're the same one”
Open the episode · The New Way Of The Superior Man - David Deida - #1101Listen at 13:25
Man of Zero is being without depressive collapse or compulsive thought activity
“So if you subtract the doing, if you go to true zero, so you're not even doing, not doing slouching, you're not doing the mulling of the thoughts. Then what's left is being without collapse and that's the man of zero.”
Open the episode · The New Way Of The Superior Man - David Deida - #1101Listen at 19:16
Observing changing thoughts reveals an unchanged awareness
“The thoughts are changing. You are not.”
Open the episode · The New Way Of The Superior Man - David Deida - #1101Listen at 21:11
Entering Man of Zero brings previously suppressed psychological tensions back into awareness
“when you come to this place of zero, all of those tensions from your entire life, all the ways you've lied to yourself and others come back to the surface”
Open the episode · The New Way Of The Superior Man - David Deida - #1101Listen at 23:50
Reduced personal tension can make someone more skilled at externally imposed tasks
“you might even be more skilled because you're less wound up in Your own issues”
Open the episode · The New Way Of The Superior Man - David Deida - #1101Listen at 25:47
Approaching Man of Zero reduces sexual desire while increasing sexual fantasies
“what men often feel as they approach this phase of the man of Zero is less actual desire for sex, but more sexual fantasies coming out of those depths”
Open the episode · The New Way Of The Superior Man - David Deida - #1101Listen at 31:04
A partner’s devotion and surrender can evoke sexual arousal from Man of Zero
“a partner's actual love, her devotion, her surrender. So when you feel someone's devotion to love or surrender opening their body to love, that brings a part of you to the fore that could become sex.”
Open the episode · The New Way Of The Superior Man - David Deida - #1101Listen at 32:11
Women will eventually outnumber men among leaders and successful people
“I think that over time, women will be much and already are, will be more. There'll be more women leaders than men. There'll be more successful women than men.”
Open the episode · The New Way Of The Superior Man - David Deida - #1101Listen at 34:41
In his model of intimacy, less physical action can produce greater perceived sexual intensity
“sexually, the less you do, the more she feels fucked by you”
Open the episode · The New Way Of The Superior Man - David Deida - #1101Listen at 39:07
Men’s sexual arousal is evolutionarily easier than emotional intimacy
“Sexual arousal is easy, so it's easy for them to talk about that part. Sex.”
Open the episode · The New Way Of The Superior Man - David Deida - #1101Listen at 41:22
Men should fully experience their current developmental phase rather than force progression
“men shouldn't push their stage or phase like you. You should live it fully. The, the best way to grow out of it is to grow through it.”
Open the episode · The New Way Of The Superior Man - David Deida - #1101Listen at 46:46
Synchronizing breathing with a partner can deepen sex beyond physical sensation
“creating a kind of resonance of breath helps deepen sex beyond the merely physical”
Open the episode · The New Way Of The Superior Man - David Deida - #1101Listen at 48:25
Awareness can naturally integrate body-mind patterns by preventing additional tension
“Those patterns become integrated naturally, if you will, because they're not. Tension isn't being added to them. You're not rewinding them tighter and tighter. You're letting them uncoil in the space of your awareness.”
Open the episode · The New Way Of The Superior Man - David Deida - #1101Listen at 52:19
Spiritual depth does not necessarily imply personal integration or ethical conduct
“there are also very deep people who are not very integrated”
Open the episode · The New Way Of The Superior Man - David Deida - #1101Listen at 54:46
Women’s expanding social roles will require men to seek a deeper basis for purpose
“as women take over the functions that men once had, men will have to find the deeper reason for being”
Open the episode · The New Way Of The Superior Man - David Deida - #1101Listen at 1:01:56
Front-body contraction signals that a person is not living from their deepest self
“that contraction, specifically in that part of the body, the front, the solar plexus, the belly, the chest, is a sign that you're not relaxed as your depth”
Open the episode · The New Way Of The Superior Man - David Deida - #1101Listen at 1:17:42
Intimate partners and long-term teachers were Deida’s most effective developmental influences
“the love, my partner's love and my teacher's love would probably be the most effective ways that I, I know”
Open the episode · The New Way Of The Superior Man - David Deida - #1101Listen at 1:22:23
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