← Terry Real
What podcasts say about Terry Real
Every statement, with the speaker, the exact quote and the moment it was said.
What Terry Real has said on podcasts
4 statements · 2 positive · 2 neutral
Relationships inherently cycle through harmony, disruption, and repair
“the essential rhythm of all relationships is harmony, disharmony and repair.”
Open the episode · #880: Relationship Tools That Work — Esther Perel, Brené Brown, Dr. Sue Johnson, Terry Real, and More on Conflict, Repair, and Lasting LoveListen at 40:49
Temporary hatred of one's partner can be normal in long-term relationships
“When you're in that dark phase, you hate your partner. That's okay.”
Open the episode · #880: Relationship Tools That Work — Esther Perel, Brené Brown, Dr. Sue Johnson, Terry Real, and More on Conflict, Repair, and Lasting LoveListen at 42:45
Relationship repair should initially focus on the disgruntled partner's concerns
“Repair is a one way street.”
Open the episode · #880: Relationship Tools That Work — Esther Perel, Brené Brown, Dr. Sue Johnson, Terry Real, and More on Conflict, Repair, and Lasting LoveListen at 44:28
Effective repair begins with listening without argument or rebuttal
“Do I get it? Listen, don't argue, don't rebut.”
Open the episode · #880: Relationship Tools That Work — Esther Perel, Brené Brown, Dr. Sue Johnson, Terry Real, and More on Conflict, Repair, and Lasting LoveListen at 45:16
Statements are attributed to the speaker as said on the episode and reflect their view at the time, not PodLume's. They are not advice.